Write to be Read
BBS 1st
Year
Chapter 1
Birth Order and Your
Place in Life
1.
Some
psychologists criticize birth order theory as wrong and unscientific. What is
your position? Do you find the birth order theory believable? Explain.
Ans: Some
psychologists criticize birth order theory as wrong and unscientific. I also
support their thought because I also find birth order theory as wrong and
unscientific. To believe in birth order is like to believe in astrology. Our
parents, family environment, society heredity etc. are responsible for how we
are and how we shall be in the future but not birth order. A child can be
parental, capable, dependent, independent, good natured, bad natured, happy,
gloomy, calm due to the influences of parents, family environment, heredity,
society and by birth quality but not due to birth order.
I don’t find birth order theory believable. I am the oldest
in my family. The birth order theory and that the oldest is parental,
responsible, a high achiever, serious, independent. But although I am the
oldest, I don’t have all these qualities. My youngest brother has taken the
responsibility of our family. I don’t need to play parental role for my younger
siblings according to the birth order theory, I should be a high achiever and
independent since I am the oldest. But my youngest brother has done better in
many sectors than me.
Thus, I don’t find birth-order theory believable in modern
families of modern societies. The children are different beyond their certain
birth order position. So, as some psychologist, I also find birth order theory
as wrong and unscientific.
2.
People
with which birth order seem to have the easiest life? The most difficult one?
The happiest one? The most appealing one? Choose one and describe it by telling
what makes those lives easy difficult, happy or attractive.
Ans: Birth
order affects in marital matches. The oldest child may be happiest with
youngest child or an only child. The oldest sister of brothers matches with
youngest brother of sisters. Similarly the oldest brother of sisters matches
with youngest sister of brothers. The worst match is with another oldest since
the two will be to sovereign to share a household comfortably.
The best match for a idle child is often with another middle
child since both are tactful and normally not aggressive. The only child best
matches with the oldest. The only child with only child is most difficult one.
The youngest brother of brothers matches best with an oldest or middle sister
of brothers. The youngest sister of brothers matches best with the oldest
brother of sisters. The youngest brother of sisters matches best with oldest
sister of brothers.
3.
Choose a
couple with know well. How successful is their relationship? Use birth order
theory to explain and support your observation about their relationship.
Ans: One
of my friends got married last year. He is the oldest of sisters. So, he is
easygoing, fun loving, and very fond of women. He is good at pleasing the
females. He got married to the youngest sister of brothers. My friend’s wife is
often a tomboy and flirt (romantic). She easily understands the feelings and
desires of her husband. My friend also knows how to please his wife. They never
seem to be quarreling. Both husband and wife try to keep each other happy.
There is no any misunderstanding between them. Their married life is going on
well. I hope they will spend their married life happily in the future, too.
Here Wither’s birth order theory applies well.
4.
Adding
phrases and dependent clauses to independent clause.
Read each independent clause below. Add one or both of the
phrases/ dependent clauses in parentheses to make a more complete and more
logical sentence. You can add to the beginning or end of the independent
clause. Do not add a phrase clause if it if not logical. Then write your new
sentence.
a. The Egyptian family is often an extended family.
(……… which includes other relatives/ ……….. with no adults
other than the parents living there)
Ans: The
Egyptian family is often an extended family, which includes other relatives.
b. In Egypt relative are more likely to live with a family.
(……. Who don’t really like the family/ …… than they are in
many western countries.)
Ans: In
Egypt relative are more likely to live with a family than they are in many
western countries.
c. There may be more resources for the children.
(…… like attention and affection/ with other adult relative
in the household.)
Ans: There
may be more resources like attention and affection for the children with other
adult relative in the household.
d. This extended family configuration probably changes the
effect.
(because it results in smaller families ……/ …… of birth
order).
Ans: This
extended family configuration probably changes the effect of birth order.
e. There may be less competition among siblings.
(…… for the parents affection/ when then are fewer adults in
the house ……)
Ans: There
may be less competition for the parents affection among siblings.
f. It should be surprising however.
(…… if none of the ideas about birth order were correct for
Egypt/ ……. To most of us)
Ans: It
would be surprising to most of us, however if none of the ideas about birth
order were correct for Egypt.
g. We would still expect the oldest child to be more
responsible.
(for example, ……/ …… in comparison with brothers and
sisters)
Ans: For
example, we would still expect the oldest child to be more responsible in
comparison with brothers and sisters.
5.
Correcting
Fragments
Rewrite the entire item, correcting the fragments.
a. Two only children who marry each other may have problems.
Because both are used to a lot of attention and approval.
Ans: Two only children who marry each other may have
problems
Because both are used to a lot of attention and approval.
b. An oldest child may find that another oldest is not a
good marriage match. An oldest may be happier with an only child. Or with a
youngest child.
Ans: An oldest child may find that another oldest is not a
good marriage match. An oldest may be happier with an only child or with a
youngest child.
c. A younger sister of sisters matches best with an oldest
brother. Who will appreciate her charm. Also tolerate her manipulation.
Ans: A younger sister of sisters matches best with an oldest
brother who will appreciate her charm and tolerate her manipulation.
d. The best match for a middle child is often another middle
child. Since both are tactful. And normally not aggressive.
Ans: The best match for a middle child is often another
middle child since both ar tactfuland normally not aggressive.
e. Although only children find it easier to make good
matches. There are bad matches for them. Such as another only.
Ans: Although only children find it easier to make good
matches, there are bad matches for them such as another only.
6.
Editing
for Fragments.
Rewrite the whole paragraph, correcting the fragments by
connecting them to other sentences or by adding the necessary words to make
them independent clauses. [TU 2073 for 10 marks]
Critics of birth- order theory say that is not scientific.
Because one cannot prove it. And because it is like astrology. Interesting,
perhaps, but not to be taken seriously. Supporters of birth-order theory admit
that it alone does not determine what kind of people we are. Our parents and
society, for example, are strong influences. Whether we are happy or gloomy,
calm or nervous, or good-natured or bad-tempered people. However, birth order
does play a role. Determining the degree to which a child is happy, calm, and
good natured, for example. It plays another role. In determining how a child
uses his or her happiness, calmness, and good-naturalness in dealing with other
people.
Ans: Critics
of birth- order theory say that is not scientific because one
cannot prove it. Also it is like astrology that it
is Interesting, perhaps, but not to be taken seriously. Supporters of
birth-order theory admit that it alone does not determine what kind of people
we are. Our parents and society, for example, are strong influences. Whether we
are happy or gloomy, calm or nervous, or good-natured or bad-tempered people.
However, birth order does play a role. Determining the degree to which a child
is happy, calm, and good natured, for example. It plays another role in determining
how a child uses his or her happiness, calmness, and good-naturalness in
dealing with other people.